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I've been thinking about dying again. Not that I've any intimations of impending mortality or anything, particularly. I'm as hale as I ever have been. My body is a good, strong vehicle, and I take reasonably diligent care of it, even if I am prone to taking it out for a venturi-clearing race around the nearest dirt track once in a while. Blowing the carbon out of the valves, all of that. Still, strong as it is, a wayward bus would squash it flat, and we rarely see the buses until it's too late.

We're all going to die, this I know. The far-flung remnants of my tiny, tattered tribe of blood-kin can attest to that. Shit happens to the best of us, and in the end, some random syllable of DNA gone squirrely, some unhinged bomber or drunk driver, some chicken-barracks virus or opportunistic infection emboldened by years of exposure to low-level antibiotics, some bus with our name on it, something's going to do us in.

This woolgathering I've been doing was hammered home by yet another piece of bad news from the folks this morning. Following on having their fishing lodge business being foreclosed on by the banks, on being made homeless but for the kind assistance of their many friends, and having to reinvent themselves and their means of livelihood in the 7th decade of their lives, the next hammerblow has fallen. Can't get a break, my family.

I'll let this bit from my mom's email speak for itself:

So, shit. Happens. And it never rains but it pours, like they say.

I hope he's going to be OK. He's a tough old bastard, and he's pulled through things like this before. There's nothing I can do but hope, I suppose, here on the other side of the world.

When my own personal train comes barrelling down the track, I don't expect I'll have much warning about it, any more than my friend Rick did a couple of years ago, any more than my bro Barry did when he almost died a while before that, any more than my stepdad did last week. So I'm going to put some dead man switches in place, I think, here and elsewhere on the web. And I'm going to write about what I'd hope might be done for me, to me, and about me, after that inevitable hammerblow falls.

Just not today.

[Update: Broken vertebrae, blod clots and a bonechip in his brain, but he's soldiering on. In agony, but he's got the Serious Drugs prescribed. Doctor told him point blank a couple of days ago "I never expected to see you alive again." The good news, such as it is, is that we're talking about Canada here, and so his medical care is costing he and my mom literally nothing, and because the accident happened at work and was not a result of anything but bad luck, he is receiving workman's compensation. Things could be worse, I suppose. Thanks for your thoughts, folks.]